Please accept my deepest sympathy. I lived next door to Tristan and Jason in Charlotte. I only spoke to him a few times, once when he was getting out of his beautiful new sports car - (a Porsche?). I could tell that he was so proud of that car. He told me to drop over for a visit any time..That was really sweet since I out-aged him by 30 years. They were good neighbors, and I hated to see them go. I spoke to Tristan's Dad a few times after I learned of his illness. He was so willing to try new treatments. God bless him. I spoke to Alison a few times and was so impressed by her love and energy and positive spirit. She was truly Tristan's soul mate. Blessings to you, Alison. Tristan is always a whisper away. It was also wonderful to see all the visitors next door.
Linda and George, I understand how you are hurting. I lost my son, Phil, six years ago and I still miss him daily. He'll always be a part of me, just as Tristan will always be your baby boy. I found that Kindermourn was my saving grace. Meeting with other parents who suffered a similar tragedy was grueling but good for my soul. My heart aches for all of you. God bless you, Sharon Massey