I first met Jay when I was 18 and went back home to North Caroline for the first time since moving away at 10 years old. I remember he let me drive 'the good car' on the long driveway which was excellent fun for 18 year old me. Although Jay wasn't my paternal Grandfather I did still think of him as my Grandpa. I felt so lucky and blessed that Jay got to meet his great grandson 'Tiger' Tiernan a couple years ago. Tiernan loved the nickname 'Tiger' that Jay gave him and only liked it from Jay. I remember Jay taking Tiernan on a ride on the lawnmower which Tiernan still talks about now. He loved Tiernan so very much and I am so grateful they got to spend time together and Tiernan will always remember how his Grandpa loved him so. I loved learning about Jay's life, it was so interesting and he was an inspiration as even when unwell he still got up and got on with things. I am so happy that my Grandmother got to spend some wonderful years with a wonderful man and that I got to be a part of his life too.